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Gyanvani unachieved nirvana.

It's going to a hard one to read & tough one to digest... 
Zindagi k sb important & equally unimportant baaton pr mere vichar:-
1-No matter what u do... No matter how much time, energy, love, devotion or anything u spend... 
No man no woman are gonna value u for it.. 
Whether be frnds, gfs/bfs, parents, siblings,.. 
U see... 
Sb isko alag naam dete h...
 Koi kehta h farz...
 Koi kehta h karz... 
Koi kehta h kaunsa ehsaan kia... 
Apki jindagi beet jaati h but inko koi farak ni padta.. 
Jeewan beet jata h pr jisko kehte h kadar ni hoti.. 
So love urself.. 
It's not selfishness.. It's worthing yourself.. Khud se bhi pyaar rakho.. Maaf kro.. 
U did best as u can.. When u can.. 
2- What's the fantasy with slim & flat?  
Kisne bola agr slim h to nice warna bura? 
Even  God has a thing for heavy & round.. Socho jra warna why are all objects round? 
Earth, moon, sun.. Jo faltu h jesse asteroid wagera wo h slim.. ( nothing against slim people).. 
Iske hisab se earth should be flat & sun should be worrying to be zero size..
But Usko to failna hi h.. 
But yeh kya fantasy h yr maa baap log ki.. Subah se lekr sham tk chik chik ki patle ho jao.. 
U know why mostly chubby women & men are cheated on & abused whether in frndship Or relationship or marriage.. 
Kyunki humne yeh thinking bna di h that slim is sexy, slim is good... Heavy is bad.. 
Jisko khud k parents ni look up kr paa rahe... Duniya nahi look up kr paa rahi.. Usko uska partner kya look up krega.. 
In fact a person also accepts other person being wrong why.. Bcoz they are fat & it's ok they can be cheated on.. 
They make it an acceptable excuse for cheating.. 
For giving up.. 
Parents say iska kya hoga.. Kaun choose krega.. Jo milta h fenk do.. 
U see.. They say "insaan maan se sundar hona chahiye".. 
That's a shit.. 
No one will even talk to u if u are not upto their standards of beauty... 
3- I hv got the root cause of population explosion.. 
Arre scientists work hi galat jagah krte h in India.. 
Here, 
P= p
Where:-
P=pressure ( from khandan & peer pressure) 
p= population explosion.. 
Ab yeh kese.. 
Bhai sahab suniye... 
ASAP u are young.. Shaadi krenge raje bete ya rani beti ki.. 
Fir chalu ho jata h krlo shadi.. Bacha krlo.. Dosto ne bhi kr lia tumhare.. 
I think indian population ki explosion ki sahi wajah h budhi dadi log.. 
Inka.. "Haye!!!! Beta maarne se pehle pota dikhade... "
Kyu dadi khud ne kya ukhad lia apne? 
Aur fir pote k chakkar m de bache pe bacha.. 
Lekin inka pressure chalta rehta h.. 
Fir 1kr lia to dusra krlo... 
Tumhare dosto ne krlia.. 
Mere 3 dosto k bache hue aur meri mummy ka alag dukh h... 
"Ki haye.. Humare ghr se population explosion ni ho paa raha!! "

Aur koi vichar h apke to comment kr dijiye.. 
Aaiye thoda ladai ladaai kre ??
SA,brownianMotionand9 otherslike this
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Totally agree with ur population= pressure point... 


nerdfighter,sstarrrand2 otherslike this
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Ye padh ke dipin sir ka viscious cycle yaad aa gaya. We ladies have a personal viscious lifecycle of our own. Isliye I consider increase in marrigeable age to be a forward step. 

But everything has to be tossed around in the argumentative indian media. "Women need agency and right to decide when to marry, whom to marry". And now I won't be surprised to see yet another roll back of decisions. 

Resist the emotional whack, see a few swollen faces, waste few evenings in useless reasoning with family and they will understand one day. 

In awe of your freestyle writing!

chamomile,Archandand7 otherslike this
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@Shailputri agr ghr wale samjh jate.... To wo frnds na ho jate... 
Ghr wale= hum na samjhenge... 
So it's ok.. 
Thank you for the complement 🙏


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