Be a man / woman not a boy / girl

My sister says I'm becoming like my dad.. 

Though I'm a mini or not so mini version of him already.. But she's saying I'm becoming more like him day by day.. 

Aka I'm turning into ' karen'.. 

Kyu esa? 

Because I refuse to leave my stand.. 

Because I refuse to accommodate nonsense.. 

1thing is more common... 

We both are  those ppl jo agr dosti krle to jaan deke bhi nibhate h.. 

Aur agr dhoka mile to jaan lekr ??.. 

But wht is the point of writing this.. 

Earlier I used to think that if parents are bad it's not compulsory that the child is so.. 

But ab jitna experience hua h jeewan m.. 

Naaaa... 

They are same... 

For its said apple doesn't fall that far from the tree... 

Kyu maa baap ko dekha jata h kuch bhi krne se pehle.. Chahe school ki admission ho, dosti ho, shadi ho.. 

Because more or less we are like them... 

I don't say there can't be exceptions.. 

But dost jaha lge gadbad h... 

Nikal lo.. 

Kyu ki hoga kewal dukh aur takleef.. 

Dusre ko farak padega nahi.. 

Kyuki unke liye to sb common h delhi m.. 

But dhokha dena is not common.. 

Stand na lena is not common.. 

Jhooth bolna is not common.. 

And it's not okay.. 

So if anyone tries to turn things on you.. Ki tum hi bewakoof ho.. To bolna tum sayane ban jate yr... 

M to hu hi idiot u should hv been man / woman big enough... 

Hoga kuch ni.. 

Apne aap ko torture mat kro.. 

Because who ever decides to stand by you... They will stand by you.. 

No matter even if u murder someone.. 

So jo yeh sb baatein h na yeh h bahane.. 

That is my friend difference between a man & a boy.. 

And a woman & a girl... 

Buddhe ho gye h hum sb.. 

Bachpan ki duniya se bahar ana padega.. 

Be the man or woman of someone's life not the boy or girl who is just holding mummy ka pallu... 

Till next time